Our time is the best gift we can give to our friends and family this Christmas.
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Our time is the best gift we can give to our friends and family this Christmas.
Nobody knows how much time we have on earth — nobody knows when our time will end.
We all have friends and loved ones who reclaimed way too early.
Hopefully, you are blessed, as my family has been, to have loved ones who have lived long and fruitful lives.
Such family memories have an abundance of wisdom to share — wisdom cultivated over time.
I particularly enjoyed the pearls of humorous wisdom my 88-year-old father has shared:
“Getting old ain’t for cowards!”
“At my age, never buy green bananas.”
“When life serves you a lemon, make lemonade — but crack open a Pabst Blue Ribbon first.”
My mother has long been a source of positive energy, hope and inspiration. She is forever forging ahead, forever looking for a silver lining.
So many times as a child — and later as an adult — she corrected me when I got lost in the moodiness of my self-perceived failures and pushed me to keep on going.
Life is hard for everyone at times. It is not easy to maintain my mother’s stubbornly positive mindset, but she powers on, demanding the rest of us do likewise.
Hopefully, your extended family is also his equally blessed his mind by my young family members who offer their own kind of innocent wisdom.
Children are filled with a natural sense of wonder, joy and hope. They especially love visiting grandma and grandpa — my mom and dad.
That makes perfect sense to me. Kids and old folks have a natural connection.
It’s those of us in the middle of time — from arm teens up through middle age — who are caught up in the seriousness of a worldly world.
It’s easy to fall into the trap so many of us are stuck in. We seek success, praise, financial security, nicer houses and more and more stuff.
What we don’t see is that while the youngest and the oldest members of our family spend their time on wonder, hope and laughter we are wasting too much of our precious time on acquiring worldly things.
Nobody ever said on his deathbed, as the old humorous saying goes, “I wish I’d spent more time at the office!”
According to Lifehack, there are some other common deathbed regrets:
The Christmas season is upon us in time is a very best gift we can give.
Rather than material goods or money, why not write up a series of IOUs (IOU mine) to give to others:
Our time is priceless. This Christmas let’s share it like the fleeting treasure that it is.
Copyright 2021 Tom Purcell, distributed exclusively by Cagle cartoons newspaper syndicate. Tom Purcell is an author and humor columnist for the Pittsburgh Tribune-Review. Follow him at tom@tompurcell.com.